This isn’t the blog post about the privilege I have as a white, skinny, middle-class, afab trans person. That blog post is coming, but this is another one where I need to acknowledge upfront how much privilege I have because I am thin. The only straight thing about me is my size, and I know I have a lot of work to do to unlearn my internalised fatphobia. Maybe this means I shouldn’t talk about my weight, but every time I sit down to blog all I can think about is that the body I see when I look in the mirror isn’t mine.Read More →

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It’s apparently July, meaning that we’re more than halfway through 2020 and I owe y’all a round up of some of my favourite sex positive shit from June. Full confession: not 100% of these posts were written in June 2020, but it IS all sex positive shit that I read this month and that it’s all content that really spoke to me.Read More →

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For the second week in a row, today’s blog content is inspired by Hannah Witton – specifically this video of hers about mid year goal setting. For those of you here for the filth, I feel like I should apologise that instead y’all are getting a very meta post about sex blogging – but then again, along with my mid-year sex blogging goals I want to share with you my word for the rest of 2020, which is unapologetic.Read More →

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Image courtesy of VanillaFreeSex Welcome to Elust 131– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #132? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! Are ‘introvert Dommes’ a thing? Can I have anal sex with vaginismus? Listing Me ~ Featured Posts by our Guest Editor Service Slut Give me rubs. Memories are timeless treasures Books and Movies Anne Rice’s BeautyRead More →

How can I be a trans ally?

After some sex-negative censorship and some super fun transphobia, I now create advice how not to be a dick to trans and non-binary people over on Patreon. Learn how to respect folks who don't use the pronouns you expect them to - and why you shouldn't assume anyone's pronouns in the first place.

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