Photo courtesy of Rebel’s Notes Welcome to Elust 114– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #115? Start with the rules, come back February1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ The Painful Truth… As Wet As I Get Three, in the end ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Pachelbel Window ~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ FemDom {T}ropesRead More →

Today I wore a sanitary pad in my knickers because I thought my period was going to arrive. At the time of publishing this blog post, it still hasn’t done so, but I have been thinking a lot about period sex. In case it’s not clear, this post is going to discuss periods and blood, so if that will squick you out you might want to take a pass on this one.Read More →

I was thinking about my vaginismus over the weekend, and found this erotica piece half-finished in my drafts folder. The idea of a dominant, particularly one in a nurturing, care-giving role in our dynamic, helping me use dilators to help me work on putting things inside my vagina, especially they also use some orgasm control to motivate me. There’s a few content notes for this piece: it involves Daddy kink, a little bit of consensual non-consent play, and a character with vaginismus.Read More →

I’ve written about sleepy struggle fucks and sweet, half-asleep sex before, so I wanted to find a slightly different angle for today’s dissection-of-kink post. Instead of erotica I’m sharing a little bundle of thoughts about why I’m into sleepy, drowsy and night time sex – because I definitely am. I really, really like waking up to cock. Content note for a very heteronormative post, and one that has some consensual non-con play.Read More →

Today I’m going to explore an idea about self-care and polyamory that has been fascinating me lately because I can’t work out if it makes sense or I’m completely misunderstanding a concept of solo poly. This means that yes, this blog post is slightly writing-as-therapy-ish, so please understand this may be utter nonsense that I’m working through as I write. It will also talk about my depression and ways I try to take care of myself.Read More →