Earlier today I shared how sex positive structure in my week helps me deal with my mental illness, but this evening proof of how much sex and sex blogging impacts my life in the form of a new sparkly dildo. Apparently opening boxes containing shiny new sex toys an transforms me into a happy, excited and passionate Quinn – and it feels really good to be her.
Since eagerly getting the new sparkly dildo out of its packaging, I have already:
- used the suction cup base to attach it to four different surfaces (including my laptop),
- attempted to see how much of it I can fit in my mouth (not much – it’s really big),
- kissed the tip and told it I loved it (it’s very pretty)
- shared related-to-the-dildo sex blog plans with a friend (while teasing them with photos of me doing explicit things with it), and
- been told that I look happier than I have in months.
Maybe happiness really is a new sex toy?
The dildo pictured is the Nebula Galaxy 8-inch Adam from Godemiche, who sent me this brilliant new sex toy for free in exchange for a review-with-a-twist that should be going live on my blog in the next few weeks. I’m plugging them here as well though, because they’re genuinely a brilliant, sex-positive company who make colourful, body-safe toys. Also, my new sparkly dildo is far too pretty not to share with you all.
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Quinn Rhodes (he/him) is a freelance journalist, sex writer, and professional transsexual. His work focuses on dismantling shame and queering sex.
I love it! I love astronomy and built my own telescope in high school! Hope you can get a big bang out of it!
Ooh that IS so pretty!!! Can’t wait to read your review!
Sparkly indeed!
Rebel xox
Wow that’s so pretty and sparkly!!
Oooooh, pretty!
Oh yes it is a glittery beauty indeed and I love that it made you so happy
Mollyx
It’s beautiful! It looks like a whole galaxy in dildo form ?
Whoa, that is such a pretty dildo!
Oh my gosh, this is such a beautiful toy! It’s a contained galaxy.
Very nice. Nothing like a dildo to brighten the day, sparkles also make for shiny, happy people in my opinion. 🙂