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  • Audio porn smut: filthy stories in her ears on her commute

    Audio porn smut: filthy stories in her ears on her commute

    A Black woman with braids sitting on an underground train. She's wearing headphones and looking at her phone. Photo.
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    I fucking love audio porn. Listening to filthy sex stories read aloud was how I learned to make myself come. I would lie on my front and bury my face in the pillow, letting the hotness of the words burn through me as I desperately ground my clit into a vibrator. I still use audio porn if I’m struggling to come, because hot words are the fastest way for me to reach orgasm. I’m also into the idea that you can enjoy erotic audio stories anywhere, without anyone knowing what you’re listening to, which is what inspired this smut.

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  • How to approach sex toys during a first time hook-up

    How to approach sex toys during a first time hook-up

    Three purple vibrators (a wand, a rabbit, and a bullet vibe) lie on an orange and yellow background. Photo.
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    The idea for this post arose during a Sex Ed Uncensored discussion – I’m getting a lot of content from Submissive Feminist’s weekly Twitter chat! We were talking about how you’d react to a new partner wanting to use sex toys during your first hook-up, and my initial answer was an enthusiastic ‘YES PLEASE I’M SO DOWN FOR THIS’. I managed to entirely miss out the nuance and questions you need to ask your partner before whipping out a vibrator (or a whip!). So, how should you approach discussing sex toys if you want to use them in a first time hook-up?

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  • Erectile disfunction: it can feel like our bodies don’t work

    Erectile disfunction: it can feel like our bodies don’t work

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    I can’t put things in my vagina. I take anti-depressants, which means I don’t always get wet when I’m turned on. While theoretically I know that this doesn’t make me “broken”, I still feel like my body isn’t working properly. However, the pressure on me to have PIV sex or to get wet when I’m aroused is equalled – or possibly surpassed – by the pressure on folks with penises to get hard. So today I’m talking erectile disfunction, and what it feels like when our bodies won’t cooperate.

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  • Clits and tips for approaching sex toys as a couple

    Clits and tips for approaching sex toys as a couple

    Hands holding a black silicone butt plug and a condom. Photo.
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    Sex toys you can use as a couple are no different to sex toys you could use on your own, but it’s sometimes hard to switch things up in the bedroom. From new sensations to exploring kinks to having more orgasms, sex toys can bring a LOT to the table, and even if you have to sit down and talk to your partner about potentially feeling ‘replaced’ by your sparkly new dildo (they shouldn’t!), it’s totally worth it.

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  • Does size matter: penis pumps and toxic masculinity

    Does size matter: penis pumps and toxic masculinity

    Today I depart from my usual blogging schedule to bring you a sponsored post. It’s a little outside my comfort zone, but the more I thought about the idea the more I decided I wanted to write something – to process my thoughts at least, and definitely to invite others to share their thoughts.

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