Tag: rape culture

  • Being called a tease as a slut in a cisheteropatriarchy

    Being called a tease as a slut in a cisheteropatriarchy

    A woman lies back with her hand between her legs, knickers pushed to the side so she can touch her cunt. Photo.
    Photo by Molly Moore, used with permission.

    My partner calls me a tease – a fair and accurate description given my investment in finding the words that will make them achingly hard and think about fucking me. But I remember, every time they say it with a fond grin or a playful groan, that for every person who affectionately calls me a tease, there’ll be another who’ll throw the words cock tease at me as an insult, or a justification.

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