A black and white image of a girl in boxers sticking her middle finger up to the camera. Photo.

Earlier this week, UK-based sex toy brand Hot Octopuss launched their new anti-sex stigma campaign – Show Stigma the Finger. There is still so much taboo around sex and sexuality, and Hot Octopuss are doing some fabulous work to combat those stigmas and stereotypes. Today I’m joining in with their Show Stigma the Finger campaign, and am not-so-nicely telling heteronormativity to fuck off.Read More →

Woman in red knickers has her hands cuffed behind her in red cuffs with the words 'sex nerd' on them. Her fists are clenched. Photo.

Hi, hello, I’m a sex nerd – to the extent that it’s written on my gorgeous new leather cuffs! When brainstorming what I wanted to have on these specially commissioned cuffs, I couldn’t think of a better way to describe myself than a sex nerd… and in fact I didn’t think of it – my partner did.Read More →

A woman in cat ears leans seductively against a doorway. Photo.

It’s October’s prompt week, which means I spent a lot of this afternoon having fun walking around my flat naked so I could take photos in doorways. It also means it’s October, but I’d prefer not to dwell on that. Though it was Halloween-y inspiration that led me to being sexy while wearing kitten ears, and thus sharing my cute kitten butt with y’all.Read More →

A hotel bed with a red and blue painting above it, and red and blue dildos in the little alcoves at either side of the headboard. Photo.

Recently I had hotel sex for the first time, after a number of solo hotel wanking adventures. I checked in, had a luxurious bath and a lovely nap – but not before digging into my sex toy bag and pulling out some dildos for a little decoration. After all, what are the little alcoves either side of the bed’s headboard for if not displaying sex toys?Read More →