Tag: vaginal dilators

  • Fluid proof sheets and needing to pee during penetration

    Fluid proof sheets and needing to pee during penetration

    A lube-drawn heart and vaginal dilator sit on fluid proof sheet between someone's thighs. Black and white photo.
    Photo by me, getting ready for adventures with the Sheets of San Francisco fluid proof sheet!

    Today I’m super excited to share today’s post with y’all, and – if I’m being totally honest – I’m super proud that I got my hands on a set of Sheets of San Francisco fluid proof sheets to review! It’s a review-with-a-twist, of course, because right now I’m having fun approaching sex toys from unconventional perspective because I can’t use them in the ‘traditional’ way because of my vaginismus.

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  • Vaginal dilators: pretty, purple, and very, very painful

    Vaginal dilators: pretty, purple, and very, very painful

    Vagina therapy – where I’ve been tackling my vaginismus with a trained medical professional – has been a real learning experience. I go into each appointment absolutely filled with anxiety, but learning why my vagina is so emphatically against being penetrated is actually really interesting. My homework has included exploring what turns me on, jerking off, and – as of my last appointment – playing with my vaginal dilators.

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