A guy in underwear lies on the bed, a woman kneeling over him holding a condom. Photo.

This is the question I kept asking myself. I miss my sex drive. In the past I’ve been told by friends that I have one of the highest sex drives of the people they know. I don’t recognised myself in that description anymore, and I wish I did. I want my sex drive back, but I’m not going to do something stupid to force it to kick back in. Something stupid like having casual sex to fuck my sex drive back to life. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. Heā€™s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventuresRead More →