A transfeminine non-binary person and transmasculine gender non-conforming person flirting.

Ever since the wonderful play partners with whom I had my first ever threesome took me on an adventure to my first sex club, I’ve been meaning to write about it. However, it’s taken me so long to sit down and type out my adventures that the thing I remember most clearly from that night is no longer the sex. Instead this post become about something else: BDSM boundaries, consent in kink, and the fact I have the power to say no.Read More →

Hands clasped together, being washed with lots of bubbles. Photo.

Last weekend, I put sparkly things in my butt. I’ve been thinking about butt-sex a lot since then, but I’ve been thinking even more about what happens before I put butt plugs inside me. There is something delicious about being washed by someone who is going to make you into their pretty little fuck-toy. It makes me feel exposed.Read More →