Tag: flirting

  • Being called a tease as a slut in a cisheteropatriarchy

    Being called a tease as a slut in a cisheteropatriarchy

    A woman lies back with her hand between her legs, knickers pushed to the side so she can touch her cunt. Photo.
    Photo by Molly Moore, used with permission.

    My partner calls me a tease – a fair and accurate description given my investment in finding the words that will make them achingly hard and think about fucking me. But I remember, every time they say it with a fond grin or a playful groan, that for every person who affectionately calls me a tease, there’ll be another who’ll throw the words cock tease at me as an insult, or a justification.

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  • Guitar strings create calloused fingers

    Guitar strings create calloused fingers

    Closeup photo of bass guitar player's fingers. Photo.
    Image licensed through Adobe.

    As I fell in love with a butch lesbian’s music this weekend, I feel a little guilty about making this piece about lusting over a cis guy’s guitar playing fingers. Right now, though, I’m on my period and feeling really awful, my fantasies are all about being held while I cry in foetal position… and as that isn’t going to happen, I’m going to write about sex that is spontaneous and fun.

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