A red t-shirt with 'What's wrong with a hairy fanny' written on it, with a notebook with boobs and ze/hir pronoun badge sitting on top of it. Photo.

As I write this it’s only eight days until I’ll be in London, trying not to throw up from excitement and nerves. Why? Because Eroticon 2020 is next weekend and this time next Friday I’ll be asking my enboifriend to help me lace myself into a borrowed corset before we head to the Meet and Greet together. But, as always, Eroticon starts with a virtual meet and greet, to help remind us that the conference is closer than any of us realise.Read More →

A sex blogging notebook, mug full of pens, and pink sex toy sit on a white desk. Photo.

Today is my second blogiversary! I’ve been sex blogging for two years now, and today I wanted to say thank you to everyone who has supported on my journey so far. The last two years have been amazing, and while I never thought I would become a sex writer I absolutely love it.Read More →

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It’s Mental Health Awareness Week (and Mental Health Awareness Month I think?) so obviously I’ve been struggling with my own depression, anxiety and suicidal ideation this week. Mental illness impacts literally every element of my life, and I am still learning how to manage it and take care of myself. Perhaps the most surprising thing that helps is creating sex positive structure in my week. Content note for discussion of mental illness and anti-depressants.Read More →

I came away from Eroticon 2019 with a hundred ideas for things I wanted to write, pitch and tweet about. Having applied a little of the time  I’m super excited to announce a thing I’ve been working on behind the scenes for a few weeks: my shiny new audio porn project.Read More →