An afab person pulls up the back of their black skirt to show their arse. Photo.

I’m not a woman, but I don’t owe you masculinity to prove that. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. Heā€™s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while falling in love every time he fucks. For his less explicit content on trans inclusivity, check out whatsinyourpants.co.Read More →

A white afab person looks down at themselves, the photo capturing their tits and doughtnut patterned boxers. Photo.

My new boxers have doughnuts on them. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. Heā€™s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while falling in love every time he fucks. For his less explicit content on trans inclusivity, check out whatsinyourpants.co.Read More →

An afab person with their legs open, wearing blue knickers with the wings of a period pad showing. Writing on their body says 'spank my boyhole' and 'tease my dick'. Photo.

Periods aren’t gross, but I still don’t feel sexy when I’m wearing period pads. I don’t avoid period sex because I get super horny when I’m menstruating, but I do find it much harder to get out of my own head. As Lingerie is for Everyone is all about embracing your body and your underwear, today I’m going to talk about fucking while wearing period pads. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. Heā€™s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while fallingRead More →

An afab person wearing boxers uses their fingers to spread the fly of their grey boxers to reveal red lace panties that they're using as a packer. Photo.

I’m having fun exploring my gender presentation. Of course, gender expression doesn’t have to equate gender identity, but since coming out as trans I have been playing with a more masculine gender presentation. I’ve almost entirely given up wearing knickers in favour of boxers – but my knickers have not been entirely discarded. There’s something very gender affirming about packing with lace panties… Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. Heā€™s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while falling in love everyRead More →

Afab person in blue starry knickers wearing a black strap-on harness with a large blue-green dildo in it. Photo.

Wearing a strap-on can be gender affirming and make me feel powerful and sexy… but it can also just about having fun in starry knickers. The last few weeks have been super hard, but they’veĀ also involved some dancing around my flat, wiggling my dick and giggling. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. Heā€™s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while falling in love every time he fucks. For his less explicit content on trans inclusivity, check out whatsinyourpants.co.Read More →

A woman lies on her back on the sofa, wearing stripy black and grey tights. Photo.

Are tights sexy? I think anything can be sexy if it makes youĀ feel sexy, and today these tights make me feel extremely powerful. They might by knitted and stripy but when I wear them I feel strong and a little bit like a witch. AndĀ that is definitely sexy. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. Heā€™s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while falling in love every time he fucks. For his less explicit content on trans inclusivity, check out whatsinyourpants.co.Read More →