Tag: lube

  • Review: The Butters Hygienics Aloe x Shea lube

    Review: The Butters Hygienics Aloe x Shea lube

    A pot of lube with a turquoise wrapper around it, plus a load of stickers, sits on a yellow sofa. Photo.

    I love reviewing sex toys, but sometimes I forget how bad I am at it until I sit in front of my laptop and I’m expected to fill the screen with my thoughts. Sometimes it’s easy and I can talk about cissexist marketing or how I tested them by squatting over my bed and peeing on my feet, and sometimes I’m left with nothing to say but FUCK THIS IS AWESOME AND YOU SHOULD PUT IT ON YOUR JUNK. In case you can’t tell, this is how I feel about the organic, oil-based Aloe x Shea lube that The Butters Hygienics sent me to review.

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  • Fucking them when they’re full of come

    Fucking them when they’re full of come

    Naked chest of someone holding a handful of come out towards the camera. Photo.
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    Fucking with lube is brilliant. Wanking with lube is brilliant. Lube is brilliant, and should be used in generous helpings whenever needed. Lube is important, but fucking without lube can be a hot idea. And after all, you don’t have to worry about making sure that your sub is lubed up for fucking when their slutty little hole is already full of come.

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  • Clits and tips for approaching sex toys as a couple

    Clits and tips for approaching sex toys as a couple

    Hands holding a black silicone butt plug and a condom. Photo.
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    Sex toys you can use as a couple are no different to sex toys you could use on your own, but it’s sometimes hard to switch things up in the bedroom. From new sensations to exploring kinks to having more orgasms, sex toys can bring a LOT to the table, and even if you have to sit down and talk to your partner about potentially feeling ‘replaced’ by your sparkly new dildo (they shouldn’t!), it’s totally worth it.

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  • First time adventures in anal fingering

    First time adventures in anal fingering

    An enby's hand is held over a wooden table, with a single finger extended.
    Photo by Queer and Confused, taken specifically for use in this post!

    It’s Anal August, so it’s the perfect month (from a sex-blogger-content point of view!) to explore butt fingering while fucking in a hotel room. Welcome to a super long post about my recent adventures in anal fingering, and why it was a fucking beautiful moment.

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  • Lube, glorious lube

    Lube, glorious lube

    In some ways, I’m not sure that I’m qualified to talk about this: other people have tackled the subject in a much more informed way, with greater experience. However, to me, it’s nearly impossible to separate my sexuality from my mental illness, and this means that there is a key ingredient to my play: lube.

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