Tag: sexting

  • Audio porn smut: filthy stories in her ears on her commute

    Audio porn smut: filthy stories in her ears on her commute

    A Black woman with braids sitting on an underground train. She's wearing headphones and looking at her phone. Photo.
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    I fucking love audio porn. Listening to filthy sex stories read aloud was how I learned to make myself come. I would lie on my front and bury my face in the pillow, letting the hotness of the words burn through me as I desperately ground my clit into a vibrator. I still use audio porn if I’m struggling to come, because hot words are the fastest way for me to reach orgasm. I’m also into the idea that you can enjoy erotic audio stories anywhere, without anyone knowing what you’re listening to, which is what inspired this smut.

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  • Am I a shitty feminist if I’m waiting for a boy to text me?

    Am I a shitty feminist if I’m waiting for a boy to text me?

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    Am I a shitty feminist if I’m waiting for a boy to text me back? Specifically a cis boy who I used to have a crush on, and I recently found out used to have a crush on me too. We’ve been flirting a bit, over the last few days, and I might like him more than I want to admit. I might like him so much that I seem to be waiting around for him to text me back right now… which makes me feel like a shitty feminist.

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  • Your consent is not continual – please stop saying it is

    Your consent is not continual – please stop saying it is

    Notebook with phrase "LET'S TALK SEX" on light blue wooden background. Photo.

    Right now I seem to be sharing a lot about how I’m fucking up and trying to do better. While I’m sure no one views me as an all-knowing sexpert, I do often share the highlights of my life rather than the moments that leave me weeping in fetal position. But I’m a flawed human who messes up, and I often mess up around continual consent.

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  • Sleep or sexting, the question I ask myself every night

    Sleep or sexting, the question I ask myself every night

    Smart phone on duvet cover. Photo.
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    Before I started working on this blog post draft again, I thought I had answered the sleep or sexting? question that I’d struggled with when I first started writing it. My depression makes it hard enough to get out of bed in the morning as it is, even when I get enough sleep. The logical thing to do for my mental illness is to chose going to bed over late night flirting every time. And yet…

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  • Public masturbation: a tale of exhibitionist wanking

    Public masturbation: a tale of exhibitionist wanking

    A girl with dyed blue hair and her back to the camera is staring into the woods. Photo.
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    Does public masturbation count as outdoor sex? Even if it doesn’t strictly fit that definition, it’s International Masturbation Monday and I want to share with you an almost-completely true story about how my explorations into learning how to masturbate led me to wanking in a semi-public place for the first time.

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