Afab person in blue starry knickers wearing a black strap-on harness with a large blue-green dildo in it. Photo.

Wearing a strap-on can be gender affirming and make me feel powerful and sexy… but it can also just about having fun in starry knickers. The last few weeks have been super hard, but they’ve also involved some dancing around my flat, wiggling my dick and giggling.Read More →

Somewhat blurry but still sexy photo of an afab person in purple skinny jeans and a strap-on harness with a large turquoise dildo. Photo.

I may not be at Eroticon this year, but there are traditions to uphold. Traditions like debuting a new pair of jeans at the Friday night Meet and Greet, and carrying dildos around in my handbag all weekend, just in case. I don’t have to be in London this weekend to draw strength from the sex blogging community.Read More →

A woman in cat ears leans seductively against a doorway. Photo.

It’s October’s prompt week, which means I spent a lot of this afternoon having fun walking around my flat naked so I could take photos in doorways. It also means it’s October, but I’d prefer not to dwell on that. Though it was Halloween-y inspiration that led me to being sexy while wearing kitten ears, and thus sharing my cute kitten butt with y’all.Read More →

A hotel bed with a red and blue painting above it, and red and blue dildos in the little alcoves at either side of the headboard. Photo.

Recently I had hotel sex for the first time, after a number of solo hotel wanking adventures. I checked in, had a luxurious bath and a lovely nap – but not before digging into my sex toy bag and pulling out some dildos for a little decoration. After all, what are the little alcoves either side of the bed’s headboard for if not displaying sex toys?Read More →