It’s apparently July, meaning that we’re more than halfway through 2020 and I owe y’all a round up of some of my favourite sex positive shit from June. Full confession: not 100% of these posts were written in June 2020, but it IS all sex positive shit that I read this month and that it’s all content that really spoke to me.
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Are ‘introvert Dommes’ a thing?
Can I have anal sex with vaginismus?
Memories are timeless treasures
Anne Rice’s Beauty books on Kinkstarter
The L Word S02E11: The Celluloid dungeon
On Call Stud, Part II
A Close Shave
It’s Hard to Feel Sexy with SAD
Early In My Coming Out
The Spreadsheet Erotic Non-Fiction
Abyss
May was Masturbation Month, but we’re in 2020 so obviously COVID has crept into some of the sex-positive shit I’m sharing this month. While the global pandemic itself can fuck right off, I do like that we’re taking time to acknowledge that just because sex toy sales are sky-rocketing around the world, it’s totally ok if you have absolutely no interest in getting off right now. Oh yeah, and I’m still angry about transphobia, so that’s another theme in this month’s round-up.
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Wedding night orgy: new, filthy traditions
There’s a theme to the pieces I picked for my featured posts, and it’s that they both made me feel valid in my gender identity. I never expected coming out as trans to be easy, but being a vocal genderqueer sex blogger has really not been fun so far. Thank you to all the folks (including e[lust]!) who have stood with the trans and non-binary sex bloggers over the last month, and thank you to the amazing trans writers who inspire me to keep exploring my own gender – and talking about it!
#1 It’s all a bit pants by A to sub B (she/her/they/them)
“Tell me I’ve been a good girl and I’m going to be grinning but tell me I’ve been a good boi and fuuuuccckkk, I’ve melted into a puddle.”
I felt soooo seen by this post. Bee talks about their experience with gender and lace panties and feeling like we need to conform to gender stereotypes. It can be really hard and I’m sorry Bee is finding it all a bit pants, but I’m really glad they’re exploring their gender expression and presentation.
#2 Queer Names for Your Genitals
by Mx Nillin (they/them)
“One of the most essential parts of reclaiming autonomy over myself as a queer enby was taking back the language used to describe my body.”
As someone who has spent a LOT of time over the last few months thinking about what I want to call my junk, I loved this post. Nillin shares a bunch of words they’ve seen other trans and non binary folks use to refer to their genitals, and I’m now slightly tempted to refer to my dick as my “ominous parts”.
April 2020 went ridiculously fast, but I managed to sit still for long enough to read at least some sex positive shit. April 2020 is also a month where a bunch of sex bloggers got called out on their cissexist shit, but there was SO MUCH amazing writing published too – meaning that this month’s Share Our Shit Saturday post is longer usual because there is so much I want to shout out.