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Image courtesy of VanillaFreeSex Welcome to Elust 131– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #132? Start with the rules, come back July 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! Are ‘introvert Dommes’ a thing? Can I have anal sex with vaginismus? Listing Me ~ Featured Posts by our Guest Editor Service Slut Give me rubs. Memories are timeless treasures Books and Movies Anne Rice’s BeautyRead More →

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May was Masturbation Month, but we’re in 2020 so obviously COVID has crept into some of the sex-positive shit I’m sharing this month. While the global pandemic itself can fuck right off, I do like that we’re taking time to acknowledge that just because sex toy sales are sky-rocketing around the world, it’s totally ok if you have absolutely no interest in getting off right now. Oh yeah, and I’m still angry about transphobia, so that’s another theme in this month’s round-up. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. He’s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures inRead More →

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Image courtesy of MxNillin Welcome to Elust 130– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #131? Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates! Communion Wedding night orgy: new, filthy traditions Body Love: Q is for Queefing ~ Featured Posts by our Guest Editor Quinn Rhodes (ze/hir) ~ There’s a theme to the pieces I picked for my featured posts,Read More →

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April 2020 went ridiculously fast, but I managed to sit still for long enough to read at least some sex positive shit. April 2020 is also a month where a bunch of sex bloggers got called out on their cissexist shit, but there was SO MUCH amazing writing published too – meaning that this month’s Share Our Shit Saturday post is longer usual because there is so much I want to shout out. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. He’s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually beRead More →

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The middle of a pandemic if a particularly important time to support smaller businesses and independent creators. As a broke sex blogger, there are a lot of fuck positive things that I can’t afford right now – but I can shout out the projects and pretty things I’d give money to if I could. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. He’s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while falling in love every time he fucks. For his less explicit content onRead More →

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Being that March 2020 has been a shit show, it’s not surprising that I didn’t spend a lot of time reading sex-positive content. However, I do have a few posts that I wanted to share, because sex bloggers are really resilient and have still created some sexy shit that definitely deserves a shout out. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. He’s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while falling in love every time he fucks. For his less explicit content onRead More →