Category: Sex-blogging secrets

  • Two years of sex blogging

    Two years of sex blogging

    A sex blogging notebook, mug full of pens, and pink sex toy sit on a white desk. Photo.

    Today is my second blogiversary! I’ve been sex blogging for two years now, and today I wanted to say thank you to everyone who has supported on my journey so far. The last two years have been amazing, and while I never thought I would become a sex writer I absolutely love it.

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  • 6 super simple ways to support this sex blogger

    6 super simple ways to support this sex blogger

    A pink-wrapped gift box filled with buttons and Instagram likes and other social media shares. Artwork.
    Artwork by Violet Fawkes.

    Want to know how to support your local queer, disabled, student sex blogger? (That’s me, by the way!) I’m back with another Clit Bait listicle to kick off my Smutathon writing today, talking about ways that you can support my work – and how it really means the world to me when you do so.

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  • Fighting depression with sex positive structure

    Fighting depression with sex positive structure

    A photo of someone with short hair and a stripy sweater facing away from the camera and looking up at a concept board of ideas and plans pinned to the wall.
    Image sourced through Pixabay.

    It’s Mental Health Awareness Week (and Mental Health Awareness Month I think?) so obviously I’ve been struggling with my own depression, anxiety and suicidal ideation this week. Mental illness impacts literally every element of my life, and I am still learning how to manage it and take care of myself. Perhaps the most surprising thing that helps is creating sex positive structure in my week. Content note for discussion of mental illness and anti-depressants.

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  • Audio porn project launch

    Audio porn project launch

    Artwork by Hazel Mead

    I came away from Eroticon 2019 with a hundred ideas for things I wanted to write, pitch and tweet about. After channelling a little of that inspiration, I’m super excited to announce a thing I’ve been working on behind the scenes for a few weeks: my shiny new audio porn project.

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  • Eroticon 2019: knickers at a sex writing conference

    Eroticon 2019: knickers at a sex writing conference

    If any of you were expecting a sensible Eroticon round-up post from me, you clearly haven’t been following my work for the last 18 months. Eroticon 2019 was my second year at the brilliant sex writing conference, and it was truly magical. It wasn’t, however, perfect, and I’ve been struggling to write a post that explores how I found the weekend hard as well as showing y’all how much happiness and love the weekend filled me with. (more…)