A trans guy wearing black knickers with stars on them, his arm under his tits and his hand on the side of his chest. The words 'not a woman' are imposed on his arse. Photo.

I’m not a woman. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. He’s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while falling in love every time he fucks. For his less explicit content on trans inclusivity, check out whatsinyourpants.co. Not a womanStop using Sarah Everard’s murder as a reason to be transphobicWhat My Dad Wrote A Porno gets wrong about queer historySet your Author Custom HTML Tab Content on your Profile pageRead More →

An afab person kneels in front of the camera, their shirt pulled up enough to offer a view of their ass and a tuft of pubes between their legs. Photo.

There’s a guy I like. A guy I haven’t fucked but who I’ve dreamed about fucking. A guy who I’ve wanked over but who I don’t really know. A guy who I want to know, because I wanted to be his friend years ago and I still want to be his friend now – it’s just that now I want to be his friend and suck his dick. But I’m not always honest when I text him, because it’s way easier to send him nudes than be vulnerable or (god forbid) needy. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. He’s aRead More →

An afab person wearing a blue shirt is naked from the waist down and lying on their front with their legs kicked up, emphasising their naked ass. Photo.

I had to pause this week. I had to stop writing, stop blogging, and stop replying to emails about sex toys I’m going to review. I had to pause on everything I care about, because my mental health got so bad that I couldn’t do . It is only a pause – I’ll be back to talking about how I’m scared of my own vagina next week – but it’s still hard to admit that I had to take a break. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. He’s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning toRead More →

An afab person is lying over her partner's lap, wearing blue panties and with her ass cheeks turned red from spanking. Photo.

I love it when I can take enough pain to leave me with marks – even if they’re just fast-fading pink arse cheeks after a spanking. When my partner told me that this particular sofa spanking had left me with such marks, I quickly asked them to snap a photo for me. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. He’s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while falling in love every time he fucks. For his less explicit content on trans inclusivity,Read More →

Woman in red knickers has her hands cuffed behind her in red cuffs with the words 'sex nerd' on them. Her fists are clenched. Photo.

Hi, hello, I’m a sex nerd – to the extent that it’s written on my gorgeous new leather cuffs! When brainstorming what I wanted to have on these specially commissioned cuffs, I couldn’t think of a better way to describe myself than a sex nerd… and in fact I didn’t think of it – my partner did. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. He’s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while falling in love every time he fucks. For his lessRead More →

Naked woman facing away from the camera surrounded by greenery, with a rainbow umbrella on her shoulder. Photo.

Today it rained and that gave me an idea for an awesome Sinful Sunday photo. I got soaked in the rain, but it made me feel wonderfully alive and in need of adventures. And taking the photo I had in mind was definitely going to be an adventure, because I needed a willing accomplice to make the photo a reality. Quinn RhodesQuinn Rhodes (he/him) is a queer, trans, disabled sex blogger. He’s a sex nerd with vaginismus who writes about his adventures in learning to fuck without fucking up. Quinn can usually be found wearing stomp-on-the-patriarchy boots while falling in love every time he fucks.Read More →