A woman with a short afro covering her eyes in embarrassment while smiling. Photo.

The current Kink of the Week topic is humiliation, which delighted me but also presented me with a slight conundrum. This is because I write a lot of light degradation and squirmy embarrassment – and I haven’t totally figured out the subtle differences between these, so please excuse me if I use them without nuance – in my filth. How could I chose just one aspect of humiliation to write about? Instead of one big, coherent post, I’m offering four short vignettes about humiliating orgasms.Read More →

A shaved vulva and public mound, with sticky come stretching between the clit and the hovering finger. Photo.

How is it already the last Thursday in July? Not only am I completely unprepared for July to be over, but there’s less than an hour left in today for me to write and publish a “thinky” post so I can at least pretend to be sticking to my blog schedule this week. And I’m hoping that maybe there’s a bit of ‘un-sexy but important point about sex’ in my attempt to claw some thoughts together.Read More →

A bitten into doughnut, held delicately between red-painted nails. Photo.

Instead of wriggling on my pleasingly chilly sheets and falling asleep, I’ve dragged myself to my desk to write about the filthy glee I find in fingering someone’s ass. There: I feel better (and more awake) for just writing that sentence. The last couple of days have been filled with butt-sex thoughts – and not only because a very cute human rimmed me a few days ago. Once again there’s a personal edge to today’s filth, as I share some thoughts I’ve recently had about anal fingering.Read More →

Naked woman facing away from the camera surrounded by greenery, with a rainbow umbrella on her shoulder. Photo.

Today it rained and that gave me an idea for an awesome Sinful Sunday photo. I got soaked in the rain, but it made me feel wonderfully alive and in need of adventures. And taking the photo I had in mind was definitely going to be an adventure, because I needed a willing accomplice to make the photo a reality.Read More →

Laptop, phone and notepad on a white desk. Graphic.

I’d say I don’t know how I missed posting June’s Share Our Shit Saturday post at the end of June… except I actually do. I’d planned to schedule this post so it went live when I was in London, but in my busy week leading up to those adventures I never got around to writing it. When in London – between Pride and CFNM adventures – I didn’t remember that this was the blog post I was supposed to be working on, and without an idea I didn’t publish anything.Read More →

Bright pink Doxy wand t-shirt with other sex positive stickers and badges scattered on it. Photo.

I’ve been thinking a lot lately about being fuck-positive in public. Mostly because I got an awesome butt-plug sticker that colour-matched my poetry notebook perfectly, but I hesitated before sticking it to the front cover. Why? Because I’m an enthusiastic kinky perv and solo poly slut, but I don’t necessarily want the whole world to know that.Read More →